
I help midlife women who are functioning, but exhausted, to understand their patterns and reduce the loads they're carrying so they can live more grounded, happier lives.
I work with midlife women who are capable, often successful, and still quietly exhausted. Women navigating fluctuating energy, invisible illness, menopause, nervous system limits, sometimes emerging neurodiversity, and the grief that can come with changing capacity and midlife bodies.
Many of the women I work with want to understand why they repeat the same patterns, why they react the way they do, and why they feel tired of knowing better but still doing the same. They are not looking to burn their life down. They want to keep what’s good, release what’s outdated, and move forward in a way that actually fits who they are now. Some often need more than traditional coaching models provide. A bit of extra hand holding, resources and voice-note access between sessions, perhaps some body doubling sessions to get some overwhelming tasks out the way.
This time in our life is sticky, with lots of difficult choices and realities. But it is also a time when we can take full ownership of our health, mind, relationships, and soul in a way we never have before. I think that is glorious. My work is about sense-making and integration. Helping things finally click, so change can happen without adrenaline, crisis, or starting from scratch.
My flexible coaching is about meeting you where you are, not expecting you to fit into a standard coaching model, and all packages, from pure coaching to more helping hand are designed to help reduce overwhelm and feel like you've got a handle on it.

I enjoy variety in my work and don’t believe in being overly restricted. Midlife is rarely just one thing. It isn’t only menopause, divorce, or health issues. It can be mothering children of any age, adapting to an empty nest or just releasing how your childhood is affecting your parenting. You may be grieving that motherhood passed you by, even if that was a choice. You might be thriving in your career, feeling uncertain about your place in it, running your own business, working at executive level, or thinking about winding down and what comes next.
You might be single, dating, married, separating, or widowed. You could be caring for ageing parents, grieving their loss, or supporting them to live well in later life. You might have a longstanding neurodiversity diagnosis or just finding out now. These experiences often overlap, and it’s the combination that can feel heavy.
You won’t find urgency or FOMO-style offers here, and you won’t be inundated with emails. I don’t like being on the receiving end of that kind of pressure as a customer, so I don’t use it with my clients. I believe change works best when it’s chosen, not rushed.

Without Sheila, I wouldn’t be living or enjoying my life, I would still be in a constant state of anxiety and depression.
Sheila was always kind and caring and never laughed at some of what I considered silly fears, but fears that bad that they stopped me from living. NLP with Sheila was the best thing I have ever done to help with depression and anxiety. She gave me tools to deal with it for the rest of my life. I cannot thank her enough and knowing that she is there if I ever need her again, gives me even more strength to keep pushing out of my comfort zone. I shall be forever grateful to Sheila, for the bottom of my heart.
Sheila is brilliant. She made me feel welcome, calm, comfortable and heard. I didn’t feel embarrassed or like I couldn’t speak freely to her. She sussed me out in one session, so clearly she’s very good at what she’s doing. Since then my life has already been different as I’ve been able to process things differently and see them from the point of view she opened my eyes too. Our second session was much of the same. This delved more into why I was feeling the way I was and ways I could manage this long forward
I can honestly say that I learned more from her in my first session than I’d learned from several sessions with a previous coach. Her warm and kind approach made me actually look forward each session as it felt like more of a conversation with a friend rather than coaching/ therapy. Since my sessions I have gone on to solo backpack South East Asia and Australia for 8 months feeling the best I’ve ever felt. I continue to use the tools she gave me to help tackle the silly little gremlins in my brain when they kick up, but I can honestly say that I feel like a new person. I’m the most confident and least anxious version of myself I’ve ever been and I owe so much of it to Sheila. She’s truly changed my life.
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